Wives and mistresses! Quick steps to relationship disaster?

It is said that wives make fewer demands than mistresses!

It is also said that mistresses are insecure...which makes them peevish and selfish in their demands!

Is it worth having a mistress as a secret lover? What do you think?

Mistresses don't see husbands at holiday times! But they are usually given more expensive gifts.

Can a husband manage both a wife and a lover. Are such relationships always doomed to fail?

Having a mistress was once accepted and tolerated. It was once a social norm for a husband to support a wife and family, plus a mistress lover.




Wives and mistresses: Are wives more understanding today?

* Yes, at least some wives!
* Yes, given most men have the same common faults.
* Yes, but wives know what mistresses do! They have no morals or scruples.

Wives and mistresses: Husbands and mistresses today?

* Husbands do believe the grass is always greener...elsewhere
* Men feel the need to try to get their youth back...
* Men take a mistress to address their inadequacy...
* Men usually find out that a new car is a much less expensive option...



Wives and mistresses: How do wives feel and react?...

* Most wives feel hurt and betrayed.
* Some wives are understanding.
* Some wives go ballistic and completely off the planet.
* Other wives feel sorry for their husbands.
* Most wives feel anger and pain.
* Men do not appreciate the wives they already have.

Wives and mistresses: What are the remedies...?

* Look before you leap...jumping the fence is too easy!
* Life is not always better on the other side...
* Life reverts to being much the same...when the novelty wears off...
* Routine sets in...occasional or little excitement...
* Reality bites...you realize what you have given up...too late!




Wives and mistresses: What are the consequences?

* Most husband-mistress relationships do not last long...
* But the damage takes so little time to inflict the hurt...
* The pain on your wife, family and friends...can last a long time...
* Forgiveness never comes easy...if ever...
* The pleasure never outweighs the pain and consequences!
* Disaster strikes...no reconciliation...it's too late to makeup...




Wives and mistresses: Why do husbands cheat?

* Usually the thrill of the chase? They seek emotional and sexual intimacy
* Husbands don't consider the consequences...
* Cheating becomes a game...
* The impact is not consided until it's too late!
* Selfishness is a dominant force...above faithfulnesss...
* It's too easy to believe you can get away with being unfaithful!
* They don't ask themselves if an affair is really worth it?


Why do husbands want to be forgiven...?

* They are weak...consider themselves first!...
* They realize a mistress sexual relationship can destroy their marriage...
* They realise too late that a breakup is a high probability...
* They think that saying sorry will fix the relationship...
* They don't think...with the right part of their body!...
* They do not want to leave a marriage for a mistress...
* Husband-wife relationships can last, if both parties are willing...




Wives and mistresses: Useful References follow...here

Falling in love with a married man is something women have been doing for a long time. Being a mistress is nothing new, but is it worth it?

Why would a husband cheat on his mistress with his wife? Check out the many answers to this question...Here's just one...there are many others...

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